Elaine Connolly

Elaine Rose Connolly
November 30, 1945 - November 13, 2014

Elaine Connolly, of Indian Land, died unexpectedly on Thursday, November 13, at Carolinas Medical Center. She was born November 30, 1945, in Portland, Maine, to the late Joseph and Irene Corkrey.

In her leisure, Elaine enjoyed walking, crosswords and reading. Above all else, she was a devoted mother and grandmother. Mrs. Connolly is survived by her son, William Connolly; grandchildren, Claire and Carlee Connolly, and their mother, Lori Connolly; and siblings, Marlene Manoogian, Ron Corkrey, Bruce Corkrey, Collette Giovanetti, Linda West; as well as numerous nieces and nephews. 

A service of celebration will be held 12:30 p.m. on Monday, November 17, 2014, at the South Charlotte Banquet Center, 9009 Bryant Farms Rd., Charlotte, NC 28277, with a reception following.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial contributions be made to the 

American Cancer Society 

or the 

American Lung Association

Margaret Grantz

Mrs. Grantz died November 11, 2014.  Services will be privately held at a later date.

Elizabeth Gillespie

Mrs. Gillespie died November 3, 2014.  Services will be privately held at a later date.

Virginia Nicolaides

Virginia Driscoll Nicolaides
March 26, 1924 - October 31, 2014

Virginia Driscoll Nicolaides, 90, passed away peacefully at the Stewart Health Center, The Cypress of Charlotte, on October 31, 2014.

Mrs. Nicolaides was born in Albany, New York, where she graduated from The Vincentian Institute School and The University at Albany. Mrs. Nicolaides was married to Professor John D. Nicolaides for almost 52 years before his death in 1999. In addition to supporting his work in aerodynamics, she was an American Red Cross "gray lady" volunteer, president of the Ladies of Notre Dame where her husband was on the faculty, and president of the Children's Home Society in San Luis Obispo, California. She was an avid golfer, traveler, and lifelong Catholic.

Mrs. Nicolaides was devoted to her only child, Kathleen Nicolaides, and only grandson, John Murdter. She moved from California to Charlotte in 2002 to be with them. Up until she was 84, she could be found in the carpool pick up at Providence Day School doing her most rewarding volunteer job taking care of her grandson. Mrs. Nicolaides is survived by her daughter, Kathleen, Kathleen's husband Mike Rader, and her grandson, John Murdter.

For the past two years she resided on the second floor of the Stewart Health Center, where she received extraordinary care and attention from the staff. The family wishes to thank all members and staff of The Cypress, Hospice of Charlotte, Fr. Mark Lawlor and her caregiver, Josie Bowman.

A memorial service will be held in The Clubhouse of The Cypress of Charlotte 4:00 p.m. Monday, November 3, 2014. In lieu of flowers please consider a donation to Hospice and Palliative Care of Charlotte or to St. Vincent de Paul Church.

Barbara Tarleton

August 26, 1925 - October 28, 2014

Barbara Z. Tarleton, of Charlotte, NC, born August 26, 1925 in Huntington, New York, died peacefully in her home on October 28, 2014.

Mrs. Tarleton was preceded in death four years ago by her husband of 60 years, Howard A. Tarleton. She is survived by two daughters: Elizabeth T. Chapman; son-in-law, Dr. Geoffrey S. Chapman, of Charlotte, North Carolina; Victoria T. Craig and Mark D. Elder of Lafayette, LA; grandchildren, Katherine Chapman Kelsey, David Chapman, and Peter, Trevor, and Caroline Craig; four great-grandchildren; and one brother, William J. Ziegler, of South Pasadena, CA.

After being raised on the East Coast, Barbara longed for sunny skies and sandy beaches so the family relocated to San Marino, California in 1963. The family spent the next 30 years there where Barbara worked for Bill Winn Clothiers. She and Howard moved to Charlotte, NC in 1963.

With heavy hearts, we say goodbye as she leaves us to rejoin Howard, the love of her life, forever. We will always be indebted to the kind and loving caregivers, Essie, Babby, Betty, and Parthenia, and Drs. John Benedum and Joe Mueller who took wonderful care of her.

Mass of Resurrection will be celebrated at 10:00 am Tuesday, November 4, 2014 at St. Peter Catholic Church, 507 S. Tryon St.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in her name to St. Vincent de Paul Catholic Church, 6828 Old Reid Road, Charlotte, NC 28210 or McCreesh Place, 2120 N. Davidson Street, Charlotte, NC 28205.

Robert C. Gamble

Robert C. Gamble
October 12, 1940 - October 27, 2014

Robert Chase Gamble, of Monroe, NC (formerly of Charlotte and Asheville) passed away at home surrounded by his family, after a lengthy illness on October 27, 2014.

He was born in Asheville on October 12, 1940, son of the late Thomas and Josephine Gamble. Due to their early deaths, he was reared by his late grandparents, T.A. and Thelma Gamble. He was preceded in death by his first wife, Belinda Love Gamble, and his sister, Eleanor Gamble Lamothe.

Bob is survived by his wife, Sarah Shoaf Gamble; son, Derek Chase Gamble of Greensboro; daughter, Tracey Gamble Mahoney and husband, William R. Mahoney III of Providence, RI; sister, Marguerite Cohen of Royal Palm Beach, FL; granddaughters, Lyndsey Gamble, Caroline and Maggie Mahoney.

He graduated from Lee Edwards High School in Asheville and went on to serve in the US Army. He then attended Western Carolina University and graduated with a business degree from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. Bob extended his education with the Masters Program at the University of Pennsylvania/Wharton School of Business. His career was in financial services and he began as a stockbroker with McCarley & Co. in Asheville. After moving to Charlotte in 1970, he worked with Interstate Securities, Wheat First Securities and J.C. Bradford Company, where he became Branch Manager. He later became a wholesale representative for various mutual fund and securities companies. After retirement, he worked for substance abuse agencies such as SAIL and CDS.

In Charlotte, Bob was a member of Carmel Baptist Church and was a charter member of Sardis Baptist Church. In Monroe, he was a member of Central Methodist Church. He was a member of the Mason's and Shriners International (Oasis Temple). When his children were young he was active in Charlotte Youth Sports organizations.

In addition, Bob was an active member of Alcoholics Anonymous where he recently celebrated 25 years of sobriety. He was the proud founder of the Riders in Recovery Motorcycle Club. His hobbies included travel, golf, music, shagging, trumpet and other musical instruments, motorcycles, "tinkering" with gadgets and his beloved Tarheels.

The family would like to sincerely thank Hospice & Palliative Care Charlotte Region, for their quick and compassionate care. Memorials may be directed to Hospice at 1420 East Seventh Street, Charlotte, NC 28204 or online at donatehospice.org.

A service will be held at Central Methodist Church, 801 S. Hayne Street, Monroe, NC on October 30th, at 11:00. The family welcomes family and friends to a visitation before the service at 10:00.

Marshall Moneymaker

Marshall Alexander Moneymaker
"Mike"
September 5, 1919 - October 27, 2014

Marshall "Mike" Alexander Moneymaker, 95, of Charlotte, NC went home to be with Jesus on October 27, 2014. Mike was born on September 5, 1919, in Churchville, VA to Icy and John Moneymaker.

Mike was preceded in death by his wife, Margaret Lambert Moneymaker; son, William; and sister, Madeline.  He is survived by his daughter, Barbara and her friend Michelle of Charlotte, NC; his son, Larry and his wife Bonnie of Indian Land, SC; son, Bennie and his wife Penny of Pineville, NC.  He was also loved by his grandchildren, Robbie, LaDonna, Melisa, Brandon, and Travis, and 6 great-grandchildren.  Mike is also survived by his sister, Edith Ritenour of Fishersville, VA.

Mike moved his family to Charlotte to begin working for Celanese in 1956, where he was employed until he retired as a Lab Leader in 1984.  He was a faithful member of Forest Hills Church since 1956.

The family would like to give a special thanks to The Laurels in Pineville, Hospice and Palliative Care of Charlotte Region, and the Levine & Dickson Hospice House in Huntersville, NC for their love and understanding during this difficult time.

The service to celebrate his life will be at Forest Hills Church on 7224 Park Road on October 30, 2014 at 2pm.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be sent to Hospice and Palliative Care of the Charlotte Region at 7845 Little Avenue, Charlotte, NC 28226 or Zach's Rescue, 11114 Atrium Way, Matthews, NC 28105.

Susan Kilkka

Susan Kilkka’s Eternal Life Celebration

Susan Marie Kilkka passed away at home on Friday, October 24, 2014 after a lengthy battle against Alzheimer’s disease.  She was surrounded by eight loving friends and family members as she took her final breaths.  Lots of tears, but down deep lots of rejoicing for her as she claimed her eternal reward with The Lord through her belief in Jesus Christ.  She’s looking down at us now and talking up a storm again.

She was born on June 28, 1948 to Donald and Lily Boyd in Cleveland, Ohio.  Sue and her brother Bruce had to endure the tragic death of her father in a car accident during their teenage years, but delighted that their mother found a wonderful man, Evan Bender, to marry a few years later.  Both have since passed away, but loving memories of them live on with us.

Sue was loving and fiercely loyal to her family and friends.  She had a deep and obvious love for her husband of sixteen years, Al, who retired in 2008 and was blessed with the opportunity to support her at home during her illness.  Her son, Jim Richardson, lives in Chicago, Illinois, and her daughter, Holly Khushal is married to Paresh Khushal and lives in Dubai.  They have the two grandchildren, Jolie (3) and Jai (1).  Stepdaughter, Lena Kilkka Mann (husband Thomas Mann) lives in Berlin.  Stepson, Alex Kilkka lives wherever in the world he wants to, his job and possessions consolidated in his backpack and one suitcase.  Brother, Bruce Boyd lives in Davis, California, and just retired after an extensive career in computer software/support. 

Her good friends – and you know who you are – always remained precious to her.  As you have said, you will always remember her for her outgoing and energetic personality, which at times could just wear you out.  That’s our Sue.  And a special thanks to Anthony and Jenilee Catri, who have lived with Al and Sue for 2+ years, and loved her as a real family member.  Plus the unbelievable love of a beautiful woman, Dawn Gaines, her seven day a week caregiver for the last 17 months.  Dawn and her girls, Zheaan and Mikyla, gave such unconditional love that could only be inspired by God, and truly became our extended family, who we will never lose.  God bless you.  And God bless the wonderful people at Hospice!

Sue graduated from Bowling Green State University in Ohio in 1971 and was employed as a sales representative for an office supply company in Chicago.  She was transferred to California in the mid-1970s, before coming to Charlotte in the late 1980s.  As the children grew up, she took part-time work as a teacher and insurance customer support representative.  Her passions included small group bible studies, her church home group, working in the yard (including cutting the lawn and planting shrubs), and redecorating/remodeling her home.  She also loved to travel, exploring new parts of the U.S. and taking fifteen overseas trips with Al, to places including New Zealand, Hawaii, and much of Europe.

Sue loved Jesus and openly expressed this.  Her sole wish would be that everyone would have eternal life through their personal belief in Him as He promised.  She is watching and waiting for us now.  She attended church every Sunday without fail and often talked afterward about Pastor Andrew Smith’s (church home The Gathering) messages and how they touched her.  Please join us for a special celebration of her eternal life:

          Sunday, November 9

          1 – 5 pm Drop By – Casual, Good Food

          No gifts please – give to your church

          The Kilkka Residence

          4226 Shepherdleas Lane

          Charlotte, NC 28277

          704-804-2901

Andrea Duncan

"Ginger"
Marion Andrea Hamilton Duncan
December 31, 1942 - October 24, 2014

Marion Andrea Hamilton "Ginger" Duncan, of Charlotte, died October 24, 2014.  Daughter of the late Andrew Robinson and Marion Hinson Hamilton, she was born in Lancaster, SC.

She was a long-time member of Christ Church and served as Lay Eucharist Minister, Usher, and on the Altar Guild where her favorite volunteer activity was directing weddings. She had many interests including tennis, gardening, cooking, and painting.  She loved playing bridge, and playing board games with her grandsons.  She was a voracious reader and enjoyed her book and dinner clubs.

She is survived by her daughter, Andrea Elizabeth; her son, Ian Thomas and his wife, Katherine Chamberlain and their sons, Thomas and Henry; her brother, Andrew Robinson Hamilton and his wife, Bonnie Baker; her sister, Lucy Irene and her husband, Charles Herrick Lewis; and a large extended family and a group of wonderful friends.

Services will be held on Tuesday, October 28th, at 3pm at Christ Episcopal Church, 1412 Providence Rd., with a reception to follow at the church.

Donations may be made to the American Cancer Society or St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.

Betty Metz

Mrs. Metz died October 24, 2014.  Service arrangements are incomplete at this time.